sighs, some friends are having r/s problems.
sometimes, advices wont help one bit.Your mind will never agree with your heart.
i feel that we're just repeating the same few advices to one another.
WE know the answer. BUT we're just not thinking straight.As the chinese saying goes "na de qi,fang de xia".
I know i've been repeating this phrase, "accept it with grace", i know thats not what they want to hear but i dont know what else to tell them because i feel this way. we cant change anything, we just have to accept it with grace and move on!
There has to be a point in time where you'll have to move on, just have to set a certain time period for yourself to be upset and after that period, block all thoughts of that guy/girl. Life would be much easier.
I dont know if thats too harsh though, i know i cant say "everything's gonna be alright" or " you guys will be fine". Its gonna give them false hope. You cant be soft hearted with things like this.
Somehow, we girls are at the losing end no matter what because we'll have more emotional attachment then the guys.
I just want to let you know, i love you all too. and i'll be here for you.
Just like you all were there for me. =)
You'll pull through this period, and you'll be fine.
i'll always be here my dears.

left her thoughts ♥ 9:03:00 PM